Pregnancy and Giving Birth is a Cherished Memory
In the beginning of your pregnancy, you’re consumed with excitement and you feel beautiful. It seems like the upcoming months will last forever as you plan, shop, decorate and bond deeper with your partner. You can’t imagine forgetting one moment of this exciting time. But just to make sure, you dutifully record every precious moment in your pregnancy journal along with the receipts and special mementos you’ve collected.
You’re pregnant and your emotions change all day long; excited, anxious, happy, sad, feeling beautiful, feeling fat. These feelings not only change all day, but they become stronger and different over the months as your baby grows inside you. Those emotions of feeling beautiful at the beginning of your pregnancy will change to emotions of feeling fat once you’re into your sixth or seventh month.
Finally the labor begins and you’re whisked off to the hospital or birthing center room and your pregnancy journal is forgotten. You’re now concentrating on the labor and wishing it would be over. What a way to cap off a wonderful pregnancy, writhing in agony or thankfully medicated as the contractions take over your body. At this moment you can’t think of much you’d want to remember, except maybe those special moments with your partner.
Suddenly you are giving birth, your new baby has arrived and your wonderful new life is starting. You and your partner exchange emotional thoughts that will be remembered forever. These are moments burned in your memory to be shared in later years when your family is grown.
While you wrap up the labor and delivery those first few days, friends and relatives call and some stop by to view your baby in the nursery. You form a special relationship with your doctor and the nurses and other new mothers. As you drive your new baby home and safely nestle him in his new room, there are more special memories. From now on, everything you do is a special memory.
These are the times you want to record as a family keepsake. Your pregnancy journal may not leave much room to record the events that come after the delivery. You’ll want to have a new scrapbook ready or a new journal just for the labor and delivery. You might overlook giving birth as an event needing a special keepsake. Of course, you’ll remember the major special moments, but as the years go by, you will forget the minor events. You may have a video of the birth and of course, you’ll have many photos of the labor and delivery, but these don’t record your special thoughts and emotions that only you experienced.
When your new baby is grown and ready to commit to a family of his own, you’ll be asked a lot of questions about his birth. Imagine how wonderful it would be to have your keepsake to provide all the details you otherwise would have forgotten. This is a keepsake that will warm the heart of your now grown child as he/she realizes how special it is that you put so much time and effort into this keepsake.
Make plans early in your pregnancy to record these cherished memories of giving birth.
I am trying to keep my memories fresh by mixing videos and photos. In some parts of videos I am trying to explain my feelings and save them for old days.
I have some strong desire to eat sour fruits. My favorite so far is grapefruit. I hope this wont last throughout my entire pregnancy.
Before my first son was born…we video taped EVERYTHING. I have a picture of the pregnancy test that was positive. We spent a ton of time making sure we got a little of everything either on a picture or on video tape. I have almost nothing from my childhood. I want my son to know or at least have available to him all sorts of memories. Even those memories that he can not remember! Plus I want to be able to look back and remember what I felt and how happy I was to finally be having a little boy!
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Giving birth is such a biggest achievements and success in a woman, i agree about cherish memories after giving birth. Yes of course, every woman can tell the happiness and memorable moment behind the 9 months of handling their baby on the womb.
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